标题: 永远不要对自己做的事 [打印本页] 作者: catfelix 时间: 2012-4-24 10:18 标题: 永远不要对自己做的事 10 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself.
不要再对自己做这10件事。
1.Stop trying to hold onto the past.
不要执迷过往。
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
你执着于过去，又怎么能翻开人生的新篇章呢？
2.Stop trying to make things perfect.
不要强求事事完美。
The real world doesn't reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
世界不会嘉奖完美主义者，却会回报那些努力做事的人。
3.Stop worrying so much.
不要杞人忧天。
Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy.
烦恼焦虑并不会减少明天的负担，却会失去今天的快乐。
4.Stop trying to compete against everyone else.
不要想着赛过所有人。
Don't worry about what others doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
与其担心别人做得比你好，不如关注自己怎样才能一天天做得更好。成功是一场和自己的比赛。
5.Stop being jealous of others.
不要嫉妒别人。
Jealousy is the art of counting someone else's blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What's something I have that everyone wants?”
嫉妒就是看见别人的好，而忘了自己拥有的东西。问问自己：“什么东西是我所拥有，同时又是每个人都想要的？” 作者: catfelix 时间: 2012-4-24 10:18
6.Stop thinking you're not ready.
不要觉得自己没有准备好。
Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won't feel totally comfortable at first.
Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free —love, laughter and working on our passions.
Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can't lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.
Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
作者: bluefairy 时间: 2012-4-24 10:30
Stop trying to compete against everyone else. 作者: Andy.Yang 时间: 2012-4-24 13:03
The word " fear" is not in my vocabulary...